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Power-Decade Parenting

Helping propel moms & dads of 3 to 13 year-olds to invest in their power-decade of parenting. Father of 3 teenagers and pastor of 20 years turned digital writer.

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Family Friday: Escape The After School Eye Roll

Family Friday Newsletter - 3 min read by: Finley Robinson A Single Sentence from a Season Ahead The types of people or actions you endorse in your stories are the characteristics your kids will find honorable and repeatable. "So, How Was School Today?" You've likely asked your son or daughter that question at least once this week. You may have asked it a lot more. I guess you got the same response as I always do. In fact, 90% of the time you get a giant eye roll, right? 🙄 Somehow, this has...

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Family Friday Newsletter - 2 min read by: Finley Robinson A Single Sentence from a Season Ahead In the teenage years and beyond you will be so glad you made the effort to promote sibling friendship. One Piece At A Time One of the biggest challenges of power-decade parenting is that your life is pulled in a thousand different directions. Being intentional to build connection and character with your kids can feel like a losing effort. The ability to focus on one child at a time seems as...

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Family Friday Newsletter - 3.5 min read by: Finley Robinson A Single Sentence from a Season Ahead Every Girl wants to know "Am I lovely?" while every Boy wants to know "Do I have what it takes?" Going A Parent Down The first 15 years of our marriage included 3 kids close together and quite a bit of travel for me as a dad. I wasn't gone 50% of the time nor did I leave on Mondays only to return on Friday. It wasn't that severe. I would leave though, on several week long trips to Colorado,...

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Family Friday Newsletter - 3.5 min read by: Finley Robinson A Single Sentence from a Season Ahead To become "that" house for your teenage kids, lay the foundation now in your power-decade season. When Fear Crashes Down There is one common emotion that every parent feels and it never goes away. From the moment you find out you are going to be a mom or dad, it walks in your front door and never leaves. That emotion is fear. Croup. Broken bones. Car wrecks. Bike crashes. Rogue waves. We've had a...

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Family Friday Newsletter - 2.5 min read by: Finley Robinson A Single Sentence from a Season Ahead If you don't give your kids something to belong to they will find it somewhere else. The 3 Styles Every family has an operating system. Often times it can go unnoticed and ignored, but every family has one for certain. The purpose of an operating system, whether it be for a business, phone or family is to manage all the moving parts and resources. It is the behind the scenes rules and structure...

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Family Friday Newsletter - 3 min read by: Finley Robinson A Single Sentence from a Season Ahead A few close friends, who care about your kids, can be the difference between a small hiccup and a big mistake in their lives. No More Scale How often do you feel guilt as a parent? Somedays I wonder if parents in the 1950s felt a similar guilt to what parents feel today or if it's a more modern feeling. They probably did, but I still wonder. It's so easy to get lost in the comparison trap of...

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Family Friday Newsletter - 3.5 min read by: Finley Robinson A Single Sentence from a Season Ahead "Is there anything I can do to help" is one of the greatest phrases you can teach your kids to ask as they grow up. A Future Look 👀 The power-decade of parenting has some crazy time-warp realities built into it. Here are a few that we picked up on... The amount of time from birth till your child can buckle their own car seat is the same amount of time they will spend in high school. Somewhere...

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Family Friday Newsletter - 3 min read by: Finley Robinson A Single Sentence from a Season Ahead Choose your stories wisely because your stories shape your children's futures. Fearing Frustration One of the approaches that my wife and I believed in was raising kids who could "figure it out." We didn't start out that way because, like most parents, our natural response to a child who couldn't find something was to jump in and solve the problem. As they aged though, I became convinced that we...

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Family Friday Newsletter - 3 min read by: Finley Robinson A Single Sentence from a Season Ahead In the competition to win your child's heart, your opponent isn't who you think it is. Highest Leverage If you had 45 minutes to sit across the lunch table with anyone today, who would you choose? A lunch date with your spouse? A quick catch-up with a best friend? A week recap with your business partner? A mentor that you haven't talked with in a while? I have found there is something special about...

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Family Friday Newsletter - 2 min read by: Finley Robinson A Single Sentence from a Season Ahead The Question: "What did you guys do to create the lasting connectedness you have with your kids?"My Reply: Whatever we did, we always did it together. Truths From Trees Sometimes there are great parenting lessons that are hidden inside other family groups. For instance, animal families have their own special names. Lions: A Pride 🦁Whales: A Pod 🐋Beavers: A Colony 🦫Monkeys: A Troop 🐒Rhinoceroses: A...