Helping propel moms & dads of 3 to 13 year-olds to invest in their power-decade of parenting. Father of 3 teenagers and pastor of 20 years turned digital writer.
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Family Friday Newsletter - 3.5 min readby Finley Robinson |
This week is my newsletter's 1-year anniversary, so I've decided to give the look and feel a slight makeover. I'm also working on compiling some of the stories and applications into separate themes in order to create small digital products. I hope you'll stay tuned...
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There was a 7-year period in my home where sleep was as hard to find as a snow owl in winter. It was the toughest on my wife by far.
She was born a light sleeper, which meant she had a perfect ear for our kid's cries in the middle of the night. I often slept through it unless she shook me awake to help.
So in an effort to contribute, I would get up early with the 3-year-old or stay up late with the 5-year-old.
From what I gathered from my friends, our kids were average sleepers. They didn't sleep as much as others, but they could sleep almost anywhere.
We have pictures of my son passed out on the couch and in the car.
My youngest took the brunt of the erratic sleep opportunities, being toted around to the big kid's activities. She is more resilient for it today.
She slept on the couch, in the back seat after school pickup, and even in the grocery cart. We might have fallen asleep watching a movie together a time or two also.
During that 7-year period, I had weeks where I wasn't sure our family would ever find our way back to a consistent sleep schedule. We had nights of tears (as parents!) begging our kids to go back to sleep.
As an adult, it's baffling that something so fundamental to our daily lives could be so easily disrupted during the young kid season.
The look on the face of a mom and dad with 3 kids under 5 will tell the whole story without saying a word.
I know it may sound hollow if you are reading this during your second cup of coffee by 8 am in order to stay awake, but sleep will come. Someday, you will get seven days in a row of 7-8 hours of sleep.
I'm not a pediatrician nor am I a sleep coach, but I wanted to offer a few possible short bites of hope to you sleep weary parents.
You will feel rested and alive again someday, I promise. In the meantime, catch up when you can and know that you won't stay sleep-deprived forever.
I've slept in the hallway to make sure my 3yr old stayed in her room.
I've slept in the car on a road trip at a rest stop along the interstate.
I've slept on the floor on a camping mattress in my 1yr olds room.
I've slept in a chair sitting up with a newborn in my arms.
I've slept on the couch with my family all piled together.
I've slept almost anywhere when my kids were little.
To quote the famous Vince Lombardi, "Fatigue makes cowards of us all."
Admitting you're tired is part of parenting. Taking care of your mind, body, and heart in this season is important to your family's health too.
For anyone interested, I thought I would share a few things I've experienced and learned after writing this small parenting newsletter for 52 weeks in a row.
By Finley Robinson
Helping propel moms & dads of 3 to 13 year-olds to invest in their power-decade of parenting. Father of 3 teenagers and pastor of 20 years turned digital writer.
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