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Power-Decade Parenting

Helping propel moms & dads of 3 to 13 year-olds to invest in their power-decade of parenting. Father of 3 teenagers and pastor of 20 years turned digital writer.

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Family Friday: The 3 Purposes of Discipline

Family Friday Newsletter - 3.5 min read by: Finley Robinson A Single Sentence from a Season Ahead You combat entitlement by helping your kids feel, experience, process and deal with frustration without bailing them out. The Discipline Dilemma "Discipline" is a complicated subject for power-decade parents. I was texting a friend the other day about the gentle parenting movement that has landed in our culture today. So many of today’s ideas are a reaction to what was broken about yesterday’s...

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Family Friday Newsletter - 3 min read by: Finley Robinson A Single Sentence from a Season Ahead Wonder if you're focusing on the right things as a parent? Get rid of the scale. Pursue meaningful moments instead. The Cartwheel Story It is a rare sight today to see a mom shopping with all of her kids hanging off the grocery cart. It doesn't happen as often today as it used to thanks to Walmart Grocery Pickup. Now, moms have been taking their kids to buy groceries forever, but some shopping...

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Family Friday Newsletter - 2.5 min read by: Finley Robinson A Single Sentence from a Season Ahead A family that puts structures into place and commits to keeping the whole team together, will win in the long run. Family Controversy In our family, girls are allowed to get their ears pierced at age 12 and not a moment sooner. Are we crazy? Possibly.Are we an outlier? Likely.Do we have a reason? Definitely. How much thought have you put into the appropriate age for a girl to have her ears...

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Family Friday Newsletter - 2.5 min read by: Finley Robinson A Single Sentence from a Season Ahead There is one common emotion that every parent feels that never goes away, and that emotion is fear. Parents Understand Tough Love Awhile back, a viral video from TikTok made its way to my FYP (my kids tell me that means For You Page) and it stopped me cold. It was of a first-time mother horse and her foal. I had no idea how powerful and deep her maternal instincts were and it was the perfect...

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Family Friday Newsletter - 2.5 min read by: Finley Robinson A Single Sentence from a Season Ahead During the second phase of your power-decade of parenting, the 20-foot rule will help you find some of those early years of family proximity. The Adult vs Kids Table The holiday season always has a lot of family togetherness, sometimes too much even. The pictures, presents, and meals are abundant. So too are the family memories and sometimes the family fights. One of the unique situations for...

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Family Friday Newsletter - 2 min read by: Finley Robinson A Single Sentence from a Season Ahead You are in a competition for the heart of your son or daughter and you have hours, days, months, and years to win it. A Parent Kids Are Thankful For A lot goes into the day we all experienced yesterday. I once was able to just show up and eat because my parents took care of everything. They bought the food, they planned the sides, and they cooked the turkey. I’m at the stage now where I appreciate...

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Family Friday Newsletter - 3.5 min read by: Finley Robinson My Favorite Parenting Framework 🔨 "Knowing your child is leaving someday helps shape how you spend your today with them." Part 1 "Coaching your kids looks like helping them discover their gifts and passions, and helping them to identify their place in the world." Part 2 WIN-Coach-Release 🥇 You are in a competition for the heart of your son or daughter. The amazing truth is, as their parent, you have the inside track. You are almost...

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Family Friday Newsletter - 2.5 min read by: Finley Robinson My Favorite Parenting Framework 🔨 "Knowing your child is leaving someday helps shape how you spend your today with them." Revisit Part 1 (Release) Here *Content Note... once we reach the end of November, I will take a break from sharing these emails for December to give a little inbox relief for the Holidays. Win-COACH-Release 🎯 Bill Moore.Ron Brewer.Gus Malzahn. These are the names of 3 of the best coaches I ever had during my...

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Family Friday Newsletter - 3 min read by: Finley Robinson My Favorite Parenting Framework 🔨 I've written about the Win-Coach-Release Framework before but wanted to revisit it, this time by starting with the end in mind. The next 3 weeks will all build together as a series. *Content Note... once we reach the end of November, I will take a break from sharing these emails for December to give a little inbox relief for the Holidays. Win-Coach-RELEASE 📈 There is a day in your future that is...

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Family Friday Newsletter - 3 min read by: Finley Robinson A Single Sentence from a Season Ahead The types of people or actions you endorse in your stories are the characteristics your kids will find honorable and repeatable. "So, How Was School Today?" You've likely asked your son or daughter that question at least once this week. You may have asked it a lot more. I guess you got the same response as I always do. In fact, 90% of the time you get a giant eye roll, right? 🙄 Somehow, this has...