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Power-Decade Parenting

Helping propel moms & dads of 3 to 13 year-olds to invest in their power-decade of parenting. Father of 3 teenagers and pastor of 20 years turned digital writer.

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Family Friday Newsletter - 2 min read by: Finley Robinson A Single Sentence from a Season Ahead Repeated powerful words carry enormous weight during the power-decade of parenting. The Habit of Helping There is a very specific noise that I hear occasionally in my house. Imagine what a tornado would sound like, except it comes from inside the house instead of outside. The sound combination is part human and part industrial. It is a mixture of grunting and slight-slamming. We call it...

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Family Friday Newsletter - 3.5 min read by: Finley Robinson A Single Sentence from a Season Ahead Showing up as a parent, even for half-credit, secretly gets the whole effect you were hoping for. Build Their Confidence At various times during our power-decade of parenting, my wife or I said one of the following statements to our kids. Somewhere between 3-13, our kids heard us say these and dozens of other statements a lot like it... "Hey, sweetie, I want you to go to the window and order the...

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Family Friday Newsletter - 3.5 min read by: Finley Robinson A Single Sentence from a Season Ahead Administering discipline to our kids in a protective and corrective way should also be done in a connective way. 👶🏼 Wait, You're Pregnant? It was exactly 21 years ago this week when my wife and I found out some surprising news. It was the summer of 2004 and our oldest daughter was 6 months old at the time. My wife walked in with a baby in one hand and a positive pregnancy test in the other. I...

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Family Friday Newsletter - 1 min read by: Finley Robinson A Single Sentence from a Season Ahead Grace-filled homes recognize that individual growth can take years and leave room for "the imperfect and never finished." Stories Shape Futures Kids gravitate towards great stories. So many of them follow The Heroes Journey. Classics like Moana or Toy Story are legendary kids movies because of how well they accomplish this. Stories in the lives of your kids, end up shaping and molding them. Stories...

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Family Friday Newsletter - 3.5 min read by: Finley Robinson A Single Sentence from a Season Ahead In the power-decade of parenting, half-credit is so much better than none at all. First, Pull The Weeds 🌿 My father loves to garden.... but I do not. Since we live next door to each other, though, I am the beneficiary of his green thumb. Gardening is a lot of ongoing work that I don't enjoy. There's something specific to do in every season, and the cycle never ends. It's not complicated, it's...

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Family Friday Newsletter - 2 min read by: Finley Robinson A Single Sentence from a Season Ahead Summer is the perfect time for kids to be forced to figure it out. A Volume Of Words Repetition. It's how all people learn new things. Handwriting. Presenting. Cooking. Tying shoes. Throwing a ball. In families, the repetition of words matters ... a lot. They help form the thoughts and emotions that everyone carries in the back recesses of their minds. Repetition leaves life-long grooves. As a...

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Family Friday Newsletter - 2 min read by: Finley Robinson A Single Sentence from a Season Ahead The stories you choose to share with your kids do more to shape their futures than you realize. Build The Connection The teenage season of parenting gets a ton of bad press. My wife and I were told several narratives by others that proved false in our family. After our power-decade season of parenting had wrapped up, we expected something different, but were surprised by the teenage years. They...

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Family Friday Newsletter - 3.5 min read by: Finley Robinson A Single Sentence from a Season Ahead When you feel like all you've been doing as a parent is trudging uphill, that's your sign to stop and have more fun with your kids The Guilt The summer schedule is descending, and power-decade parents everywhere are now caught in the emotional battle. Yeah, for more time with kids, and Oh-No, for what to do with all the time with the kids. The increase in the amount of time together during the...

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Family Friday Newsletter - 2.5 min read by: Finley Robinson A Single Sentence from a Season Ahead Being aware and demonstrating that you are present in your kids' everyday lives is an act of kindness and grace. Winning The Weekend Maycember is a very full month in our home. 3 Birthdays, Mother's Day, and a Wedding Anniversary... not to mention all the sports, graduations, and parties that pile in as well. So, as the month shifts into 6th gear (yeah, I still drive a manual transmission car ;)...

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Family Friday Newsletter - 3 min read by: Finley Robinson A Single Sentence from a Season Ahead Every little boy or girl is asking one basic question. It's up to parents to be the first ones to answer it for them. Lasting Ideals My Mother Embraced Moms naturally have the gift of belief in their kids. They see the good and overlook the bad. They go to endless lengths to be supportive. They possess a relentless love for their children. But they also have something that goes unspoken or...